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Josh Pastner and Memphis Tigers National Signing Day

Yeah I got my Memphis Tigers Swag on today. I bleed blue. I am a graduate and alumni of the University of Memphis and basketball season is almost here. Today is the first day of the early signing period and Memphis looks to have it’s best class ever lined up and I’m pumped to see it happen. Coach Pastner is a huge reason why. I wanted to talk about the coach Josh Pastner and some things that I’ve gleaned from his leadership since he’s been the coach of Memphis Basketball.

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BSM Leader meeting recap

Last night, we had a leader meeting to talk about our focus for the next year of ministry. We took some time to celebrate some wins and had some incredible Chili!!! Side note: I love chili. We also took a lot of time to push small groups. The highlight of the night was an illustration that was given by Jared.  Continue Reading…

The Plateau

pic from Panoramas

When it comes to ministry, this picture is a scary one. It’s a picture of a plateau. A beautiful piece of God’s creation, but not really what you want if you are the leader of any ministry or business entity. Because this image represents lack of growth.

It might only be for a season, but this is something that in no way is something that I look forward to experiencing. In fact it scares me. But it’s also something that you must learn to embrace for a season.

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Making Ideas Happen Book Review

 

Ever struggle with your ideas not becoming a reality? Have you ever wanted to complete more tasks? Have you ever had the desire to look back on things accomplished with satisfaction and not regret? Then this book is for you. Making Ideas Happen by Scott Belsky
, is by far an incredible resource for you to make progress towards making your ideas happen.

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Dreams

Country Mile

Wow I haven’t blogged in awhile. So much has been going on with ministry and life and everything that the blog has kind of fallen behind, but I’m going to let you into my brain for the next few posts.

Have you ever thought about where you are going? Seriously. I remember being 18 and a freshman in college and having the next 10 years of my life completely planned out. Really. My plan was to graduate from the University of Memphis with a BBA in Marketing and then find a job in the field. Then I wanted to go back to school for what I really wanted to do with my life and that was work in a church. I wanted to be a pastor. Not a senior pastor, but pastor nonetheless. Somewhere between those two things I wanted to get married and be heavily involved in a thriving youth ministry.

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Teenagers and bible study

When it comes to your tween and the youth, you want them to study the bible. One thing that I always struggle with when it comes to students is the balance between knowledge and connection with Jesus. I often wonder what is it like for a teenager when it comes to bible study. When do they feel like they should read their bible? What do they read? Why do they read it? I believe if we can answer some of these questions then we can begin to present some compelling illustration to youth about reading God’s word.

What I learned:

A small group leader asked their teenagers when do they read the bible. Most of them said when they felt bad. They look to God’s word for encouragement and strength in times that they are feeling guilty, hurt, or alone. All of these are compelling reasons and I was excited to hear about youth that were going to God’s word when they felt a need. But it made me wonder, how do you compel students to go to God’s word before hurt, pain, or sin? How do you encourage them to draw close to Jesus, before they go through struggles.

Is it true that we all go to the bible when we hurt? I know in my life, my most intense worship and connection with Jesus, has happened in the midst of struggle. These students know that Christ is with them in their time of pain and struggle.

But….

Are we teaching God’s word in a way that students understand it’s impact on a daily, weekly, monthly basis? Are we modeling for our students a consistent connection with Christ? Are we consistently in God’s word?

About a week ago, J-Pat, my boss and our Student Pastor, showed me a DVD of David Platt, author of Radical: Taking Back Your Faith from the American Dream(affiliate link), going completely through Psalm 119. It was quite a feat and a statement. But what was amazing to me wasn’t so much DP and his massive memorization skills, it was instead the passion with which the writer spoke about the word of God. Here’s a sample from that text:

Teach me, O LORD, the way of your statutes;
and I will keep it to the end.
Give me understanding, that I may keep your law
and observe it with my whole heart.
Lead me in the path of your commandments,
for I delight in it.
Incline my heart to your testimonies,
and not to selfish gain!
Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things;
and give me life in your ways.
Confirm to your servant your promise,
that you may be feared.
Turn away the reproach that I dread,
for your rules are good.
Behold, I long for your precepts;
in your righteousness give me life!
(Psalm 119:33-40 ESV)


I was instantly convicted by the words, not from the mouth of an incredible bible teacher, but instead the words of the author expressing the need of the precepts of God the Father in his life.

Challenge:

Teach God’s word with conviction. Preach a Savior who willingly gave Himself as a sacrifice for an unworthy world, because of His great love for His Father and His brothers and sisters. I pray that in my life I would teach and know God’s word in a way that challenges others to know Christ more through His teaching.

In what ways can we teach our students about God’s word in a way that they fall in love with it and thirst for it?

 

MinisterSearch

So part of the reason you can basically know everything Orange via bloggage and tweetage is because of the blogging suites David Lyons of MinisterSearch has provided… the blogging suites. ! If you’re here at Orange, MinisterSearch wants to get to know you. Stop by the blogging suite and meet David as well as all the bloggers.

MinisterSearch is a search firm for those who serve in the church. Whether you’re a church looking to hire someone or you’re seeking a position in a church, MinisterSearch is a great resource for you. So make sure that you can come by and chat with David and all of us bloggers upstairs in the Orange Leaders lounge, directly past the free Coffee :)

 

Be sure to check them out at MinisterSearch.com

Book Giveaway: Heaven is for Real

Little Boy Survives Trip to Heaven

So I have the privilege of being able to giveaway the book titled Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy’s Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back(affiliate link). I wanted to think of something incredibly creative in order to give this book away, but honestly I couldn’t come up with anything. So here is what you need to do in order to win:

  • Post a comment naming at least one starter on the Memphis Grizzlies NBA Basketball team
  • Receive notification that you were the first one from me
  • Then come find me tomorrow in the Arena. Have to be at Orange tomorrow to win.

It’s as simple as that. Happy hunting :)

Orange Conference ’11 Day 3

2010 Orange Conference

I have been loving the Orange Conference, like I have every year. Today I definitely found a few takeaways. So again I will give you my summary of the 2 main sessions of the day and also the cliff notes of the 2 breakouts that I attended.

Main Session 2 – Jeff Manion

I heard Jeff Manion at the Willow Creek Leadership summit last year. He did a similar talk there involving the idea of his book: The Land Between: Finding God in Difficult Transitions(affiliate link) and it was definitely a talk that I remember.

  • The Land Between is in reference to the time that the Israelites were in the desert after being freed from slavery, but not yet crossing the finish line into the Promised Land.
  • The Land Between is both the soil for transforming faith and it’s also where faith goes to die.
  • The Land Between is when you have received God’s promise but you haven’t necessarily experienced the relief of the situation.
  • God is attempting to transform the Israelites from people of slavery to the people of God.
  • The soil we most detest is the same soil that produces the fruit we most deeply desire

 

Volunteer Assimilation by Nina Schmidgall

  • Know your vision so that you can always cast it. (please stop immediately if you can’t state your vision and take today and figure that out)
  • Date a new volunteer: love the analogy. Know when to pop the question, shower them with gifts, etc.
  • Use a shadowing system
  • Use the One Time Ask: Hey can you sit in on “x” and give me your thoughts on how we could improve? (stealing this one)
  • Know your entry and exit points for volunteering. (NCC uses semesters, plans recruiting and celebrations around semesters)
  • Never say “ONLY” as in you are “only” committing to this or well you “only” have to do this. You are already undermining the volunteer.

Not JUST a Volunteer by Jeanne Stevens

  • Coming to Serving, Serving to Owning, Serving to Leading. Note the progression.
  • Had a cool idea she called Next, they took 15 minutes after the service to give everyone in their congregation that was interested info on what to do next.
  • Imagine your volunteers living this out “If you don’t give me responsibility, I won’t be responsible.”
  • Letting the wrong people hang around will negatively affect the right people.

Main Session 3 – Jud Wilhite

  • This one thing struck me and I couldn’t shake it: “God moves on our behalf not just so we can be forgiven and free but so we can be sent out on mission to share his love and grace.”

Tomorrow is the last day of the Orange Conference, make sure you swing by the blogger’s lounge upstairs and say hello :)

How to move from notes to action

note

So #Orange11 has been incredible so far. Had a great chat with Chad Swanzy, Gina McClain, and Cathy Harwick talking about the preteen age group and the many talks that need to happen between parents and students. Great preteen ministry conversation we had. But that conversation needed so much more discussion and a lot more action. Which begs the question: How do you move from notes and chatter to action?

Jim Wideman mentioned today in his How to get more done in a day, that you need the right tools. So with the inspiration from Brother Jim and also this post from Ryan Millard here are some thoughts and tools to move from notes you take at Orange or another conference and transform them into action.

You must capture well

For me I use a variety of tools:

  • Evernote
  • Pen and Paper (I prefer Pilot G2(affiliate link) and Moleskine(affiliate link))
  • Pictures taken on my iPhone 4 and then modified with a scanner app called CamScanner Free and then moved into Evernote :)

Any of these are great to use to capture thoughts, ideas, and quotes from incredible speakers, friends and even strangers. You must do your best to capture your thoughts as completely as you can.

Prioritize Action Items

What are the ideas that you need to act on? How to you label those items to set them apart from your regular non-thought provoking thoughts?

  • The @ sign is something that I always use when I’m in Evernote. Why? Because you can search for the @ symbol. When you do a search for that symbol all of your action items will immediate become available to you.
  • Colors if you are using pen and paper. Colors can help you organize information so well. From calendars to contacts to conversations, colors draw attention and immediately identify differentiation.

Plan and Breakdown

After you’ve prioritized action throughout your notes, you need to immediately plan to complete the tasks. One of the best things that you can do is immediately bring down the big task that you want to complete into small steps that are easily completable. Sounds simple, but this separates dreams come true versus forgotten ideas. Begin working to complete the big, one small step at a time.

 

Biggest Hacker Tip

Are you ready for this? I can’t believe that I’m even telling you this tip. If you take notes with pen and paper and you have a smartphone with a camera. You need to get an Evernote compliant app. I use CamScanner Free to transform pictures of notes, whiteboards, and books into brighter pictures where the white is made much more vibrant and makes the text searchable (if you use Evernote).

Here is an example from today’s notes:

Original Picture no edit

Cropped and edited with CamScanner Free

 

 

I cannot tell you how much this has changed the game for me in my note taking abilities.

 

 

To Summarize:

  • Capture your thoughts
  • Prioritize what needs action
  • Breakdown the big into smaller more attainable steps
  • Do it!!

 

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