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Country Mile

Wow I haven’t blogged in awhile. So much has been going on with ministry and life and everything that the blog has kind of fallen behind, but I’m going to let you into my brain for the next few posts.

Have you ever thought about where you are going? Seriously. I remember being 18 and a freshman in college and having the next 10 years of my life completely planned out. Really. My plan was to graduate from the University of Memphis with a BBA in Marketing and then find a job in the field. Then I wanted to go back to school for what I really wanted to do with my life and that was work in a church. I wanted to be a pastor. Not a senior pastor, but pastor nonetheless. Somewhere between those two things I wanted to get married and be heavily involved in a thriving youth ministry.

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Teenagers and bible study

When it comes to your tween and the youth, you want them to study the bible. One thing that I always struggle with when it comes to students is the balance between knowledge and connection with Jesus. I often wonder what is it like for a teenager when it comes to bible study. When do they feel like they should read their bible? What do they read? Why do they read it? I believe if we can answer some of these questions then we can begin to present some compelling illustration to youth about reading God’s word.

What I learned:

A small group leader asked their teenagers when do they read the bible. Most of them said when they felt bad. They look to God’s word for encouragement and strength in times that they are feeling guilty, hurt, or alone. All of these are compelling reasons and I was excited to hear about youth that were going to God’s word when they felt a need. But it made me wonder, how do you compel students to go to God’s word before hurt, pain, or sin? How do you encourage them to draw close to Jesus, before they go through struggles.

Is it true that we all go to the bible when we hurt? I know in my life, my most intense worship and connection with Jesus, has happened in the midst of struggle. These students know that Christ is with them in their time of pain and struggle.

But….

Are we teaching God’s word in a way that students understand it’s impact on a daily, weekly, monthly basis? Are we modeling for our students a consistent connection with Christ? Are we consistently in God’s word?

About a week ago, J-Pat, my boss and our Student Pastor, showed me a DVD of David Platt, author of Radical: Taking Back Your Faith from the American Dream(affiliate link), going completely through Psalm 119. It was quite a feat and a statement. But what was amazing to me wasn’t so much DP and his massive memorization skills, it was instead the passion with which the writer spoke about the word of God. Here’s a sample from that text:

Teach me, O LORD, the way of your statutes;
and I will keep it to the end.
Give me understanding, that I may keep your law
and observe it with my whole heart.
Lead me in the path of your commandments,
for I delight in it.
Incline my heart to your testimonies,
and not to selfish gain!
Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things;
and give me life in your ways.
Confirm to your servant your promise,
that you may be feared.
Turn away the reproach that I dread,
for your rules are good.
Behold, I long for your precepts;
in your righteousness give me life!
(Psalm 119:33-40 ESV)


I was instantly convicted by the words, not from the mouth of an incredible bible teacher, but instead the words of the author expressing the need of the precepts of God the Father in his life.

Challenge:

Teach God’s word with conviction. Preach a Savior who willingly gave Himself as a sacrifice for an unworthy world, because of His great love for His Father and His brothers and sisters. I pray that in my life I would teach and know God’s word in a way that challenges others to know Christ more through His teaching.

In what ways can we teach our students about God’s word in a way that they fall in love with it and thirst for it?

 

MinisterSearch

So part of the reason you can basically know everything Orange via bloggage and tweetage is because of the blogging suites David Lyons of MinisterSearch has provided… the blogging suites. ! If you’re here at Orange, MinisterSearch wants to get to know you. Stop by the blogging suite and meet David as well as all the bloggers.

MinisterSearch is a search firm for those who serve in the church. Whether you’re a church looking to hire someone or you’re seeking a position in a church, MinisterSearch is a great resource for you. So make sure that you can come by and chat with David and all of us bloggers upstairs in the Orange Leaders lounge, directly past the free Coffee :)

 

Be sure to check them out at MinisterSearch.com

Book Giveaway: Heaven is for Real

Little Boy Survives Trip to Heaven

So I have the privilege of being able to giveaway the book titled Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy’s Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back(affiliate link). I wanted to think of something incredibly creative in order to give this book away, but honestly I couldn’t come up with anything. So here is what you need to do in order to win:

  • Post a comment naming at least one starter on the Memphis Grizzlies NBA Basketball team
  • Receive notification that you were the first one from me
  • Then come find me tomorrow in the Arena. Have to be at Orange tomorrow to win.

It’s as simple as that. Happy hunting :)

Orange Conference ’11 Day 3

2010 Orange Conference

I have been loving the Orange Conference, like I have every year. Today I definitely found a few takeaways. So again I will give you my summary of the 2 main sessions of the day and also the cliff notes of the 2 breakouts that I attended.

Main Session 2 – Jeff Manion

I heard Jeff Manion at the Willow Creek Leadership summit last year. He did a similar talk there involving the idea of his book: The Land Between: Finding God in Difficult Transitions(affiliate link) and it was definitely a talk that I remember.

  • The Land Between is in reference to the time that the Israelites were in the desert after being freed from slavery, but not yet crossing the finish line into the Promised Land.
  • The Land Between is both the soil for transforming faith and it’s also where faith goes to die.
  • The Land Between is when you have received God’s promise but you haven’t necessarily experienced the relief of the situation.
  • God is attempting to transform the Israelites from people of slavery to the people of God.
  • The soil we most detest is the same soil that produces the fruit we most deeply desire

 

Volunteer Assimilation by Nina Schmidgall

  • Know your vision so that you can always cast it. (please stop immediately if you can’t state your vision and take today and figure that out)
  • Date a new volunteer: love the analogy. Know when to pop the question, shower them with gifts, etc.
  • Use a shadowing system
  • Use the One Time Ask: Hey can you sit in on “x” and give me your thoughts on how we could improve? (stealing this one)
  • Know your entry and exit points for volunteering. (NCC uses semesters, plans recruiting and celebrations around semesters)
  • Never say “ONLY” as in you are “only” committing to this or well you “only” have to do this. You are already undermining the volunteer.

Not JUST a Volunteer by Jeanne Stevens

  • Coming to Serving, Serving to Owning, Serving to Leading. Note the progression.
  • Had a cool idea she called Next, they took 15 minutes after the service to give everyone in their congregation that was interested info on what to do next.
  • Imagine your volunteers living this out “If you don’t give me responsibility, I won’t be responsible.”
  • Letting the wrong people hang around will negatively affect the right people.

Main Session 3 – Jud Wilhite

  • This one thing struck me and I couldn’t shake it: “God moves on our behalf not just so we can be forgiven and free but so we can be sent out on mission to share his love and grace.”

Tomorrow is the last day of the Orange Conference, make sure you swing by the blogger’s lounge upstairs and say hello :)

How to move from notes to action

note

So #Orange11 has been incredible so far. Had a great chat with Chad Swanzy, Gina McClain, and Cathy Harwick talking about the preteen age group and the many talks that need to happen between parents and students. Great preteen ministry conversation we had. But that conversation needed so much more discussion and a lot more action. Which begs the question: How do you move from notes and chatter to action?

Jim Wideman mentioned today in his How to get more done in a day, that you need the right tools. So with the inspiration from Brother Jim and also this post from Ryan Millard here are some thoughts and tools to move from notes you take at Orange or another conference and transform them into action.

You must capture well

For me I use a variety of tools:

  • Evernote
  • Pen and Paper (I prefer Pilot G2(affiliate link) and Moleskine(affiliate link))
  • Pictures taken on my iPhone 4 and then modified with a scanner app called CamScanner Free and then moved into Evernote :)

Any of these are great to use to capture thoughts, ideas, and quotes from incredible speakers, friends and even strangers. You must do your best to capture your thoughts as completely as you can.

Prioritize Action Items

What are the ideas that you need to act on? How to you label those items to set them apart from your regular non-thought provoking thoughts?

  • The @ sign is something that I always use when I’m in Evernote. Why? Because you can search for the @ symbol. When you do a search for that symbol all of your action items will immediate become available to you.
  • Colors if you are using pen and paper. Colors can help you organize information so well. From calendars to contacts to conversations, colors draw attention and immediately identify differentiation.

Plan and Breakdown

After you’ve prioritized action throughout your notes, you need to immediately plan to complete the tasks. One of the best things that you can do is immediately bring down the big task that you want to complete into small steps that are easily completable. Sounds simple, but this separates dreams come true versus forgotten ideas. Begin working to complete the big, one small step at a time.

 

Biggest Hacker Tip

Are you ready for this? I can’t believe that I’m even telling you this tip. If you take notes with pen and paper and you have a smartphone with a camera. You need to get an Evernote compliant app. I use CamScanner Free to transform pictures of notes, whiteboards, and books into brighter pictures where the white is made much more vibrant and makes the text searchable (if you use Evernote).

Here is an example from today’s notes:

Original Picture no edit

Cropped and edited with CamScanner Free

 

 

I cannot tell you how much this has changed the game for me in my note taking abilities.

 

 

To Summarize:

  • Capture your thoughts
  • Prioritize what needs action
  • Breakdown the big into smaller more attainable steps
  • Do it!!

 

#Orange11 PreConference

First, wow it’s been awesome. I am truly blessed. Great conversations with incredible people and can’t wait to meet more. Had a few preteen ministry conversations as well and man it’s been awesome.

So here are the 3 breakouts that I attended:

  • How to plan a ministry calendar by Kenny Conley (@kennyconley)
  • How to evaluate your weekly programming by Kendra Fleming (@KFleming)
  • How to do more in a day by Jim Wideman (@jimwideman)
  • How to connect with parents using social media by Kenny Conley and Matt Mckee (@kennyconley & @mattmckee)

I will give you a brief synopsis of each and some key takeaways, with some more detailed breakdowns coming later.

How to plan a Ministry Calendar by Kenny Conley

  • Get your mission, vision, and values down before you even think about a calendar
  • Make your calendar reflect your mission, vision, values, and goals.
  • Don’t do things based on budget but instead based on your goals.
  • Ask for more, and be ok settling for less.

How to evaluate your Weekly Programming by Kendra Fleming

  • Kendra does an amazing job. Wish I could have done everyone of her and Kenny’s breakouts, but alas.
  • Evaluate by 5 criteria. Critique the environments, nurture leaders, value team, inform the crowd, and perfect the systems.
  • Evaluate consistently, Evaluate honestly, and most importantly evaluate critically.
  • If you aren’t evaluating, you aren’t getting better at anything.

How to do more in a day by Jim Wideman

  • Organization, Time Management, and Leadership are learned behaviors
  • Organization + Order = Effective Management
  • Your time should reflect your priorities
  • You need a big vision, know and live by your priorities, desire to change, and the right tools in order to get more done.
  • Whatever you don’t manage you will lose.
  • If you spent as much time with God as you do with your wife, then would you still be married? (insert bam here)
  • Break big things down into small steps.

How to Connect with Parents using Social Media by Kenny Conley and Matt Mckee

  • Used Google Voice to take questions, I took this opportunity to text the real JC (Jonathan Cliff, who was GV moderator) and try and distract him.
  • Social media was used more on the internet than porn last year.
  • Social media isn’t just a fad it’s here to stay.
  • It’s not about blasting your message, it’s about providing a way for others to interact
  • You should come meet all of us at the Blogger’s Lounge and buy an app from ROAR (they didn’t say this but I thought I would add it)

Give Clean Water for Christmas

Give Clean Water

So today I found out that Americans spent $45 Billion on shopping this past weekend. I know from studying for Advent Conspiracy, that most people in the know think that it would take $10 Billion to give clean water to everyone in the world.

22% of what was spent this weekend on retail would have fixed the water problem in the world

22% of 1 Weekend

It’s time to step up our game. I don’t kid myself by believing that I know enough people to change the world. But I do know the Savior of the World and He knows some peeps. So with Christ leading the charge in your heart I’m asking you to send people to Carlos’ post on Blue Friday. It’s time we put our money where we say our heart is. It’s time to give a present that will mean life change to villages, kids, and even countries.

For Advent we are teaming up with Water of Life to attempt to build a well in Africa solely from donations from our Students at Brookwood. It’s time you contribute. Be a part of a solution to one of the world’s biggest issues.

John Mayer said…

“It occurred to me that since the invocation of Twitter, nobody who has participated in it has created any lasting art.”

Crazy! This is what he said after he announced he was quitting twitter.

“Those who decide to remain offline will make better work than those online. Why? Because great ideas have to gather. They have to pass the test of withstanding thirteen different moods, four different months and sixty different edits. Anything less is day trading. You can either get a bunch of mentions now or change someone’s life next year.”

What do you think? Agree or disagree.

Definitely made me think

Read the full story here

What is an RSS reader and why do I need one?

Hopefully after watching that video you know exactly why you need an RSS reader. But if you are still on the fence, here are a few reasons.

  1. To Interact with like-minded people
  2. To READ-some of you need to look that one over again, haha.
  3. To Learn and Grow
  4. Because it’s better than just browsing.

So sign up for a Google Reader and just go crazy subscribing to blogs. I have about 40 that I read everyday. Distance mentors.

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